Introducing sex toys into your life might seem scary, especially if you don’t know how your partner is going to react. The last thing you’d need is for them to be freaked out. Fortunately, we have a couple of tricks up our sleeves. Here, we will go through some of the ways you can make everything easier and help you start using adult toys as a couple.

It’s Not a Big Deal

The first thing you need to understand is that it’s not a big deal. There is a reason why people talk about sex toys, and they are more popular by the day. Some believe that there is a hidden meaning behind them. If a girl uses a toy, that means that she is bored of her relationship, that her boyfriend has a small pee-pee, or anything in between.

The truth is, unfortunately, slightly boring. People use them because they are fun. And they increase the pleasure! There are no hidden messages or hints if someone wants to use them. It is as simple as that. Of course, there are those who try to shame couples who use sex toys, but they would probably shame anyone who does it in any other position but missionary. 

There’s No Such Thing as the “Perfect Time”

The next thing you need to understand is that there won’t be a perfect moment for you to pull a dildo out of your drawer. It doesn’t work like that. And it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been in a relationship. There won’t be a golden moment to start talking about it. 

In reality, the perfect time for you is the moment you want to introduce sex toys into your relationship. It shouldn’t matter how long you have had sex before that. If you feel like you want to spice up your sex life and for both you and your partner to feel good, then the moment is right. 

Communication Is Key

To continue with the previous topic, the only way you can know that you should include toys in the bedroom is if you talk to your significant other. There is no other way around it. When it comes to sex, everything should be consensual from all included parties. And that applies to sex toys as well. 

Just remember that communication is key. Talk to your partner, tell them how you feel, and hear what they have to say about it. While it might seem scary, it is the right thing to do. By being open with them, you will improve not only your sex life but your entire relationship. 

It is also the easiest way to avoid unpleasant or awkward situations. The last thing they need is to see a 10-inch dildo in the middle of a makeout session.

Sort All the Details Out

One of the things you need to address is what type of toys you want to use. There are so many different things to discuss, and your partner needs to know what they are getting into. For example, you might want to try a toy with unique vibration patterns or for your partner to wear a cock ring. 

There is a big difference between the two, and the only way for both of you to enjoy it is to know all the details. Furthermore, be as specific as you can when explaining what you want to try. There is no reason for you to be shy, and it will be a lot easier for them to decide whether they want to try something new and different. 

Finally, Go Shopping

Once they agree to try using sex toys, the fun will begin. The choices are nearly limitless, and it is up to you to see which ones you want to try. The best thing about adult toys is that there are so many options for couples. 

It also depends on how kinky you want to be and whether you want to use the toy on yourself or on your partner. That is why the best possible option is to go together. It is reasonable for you to pick a toy as a couple since you will be using it as a couple in the bedroom. 

Of course, there is a chance that you’ll get inspiration when you see what your local sex shop has to offer. Who knows, maybe you get carried a bit and decide to try something even kinkier than you’d imagined. But the only way to ensure that you won’t make a mistake is if both of you have a saying word in the decision, and go shopping together.